Recently I have had cause to reflect on the
direction
of my life and the changes taking place in it. I kept coming back to
something that I tell my students all the time in class...Train From
the Heart. Now, this doesn't just apply to their Martial Arts training.
This is also something I ask them to apply in their everyday lives.
The
old adage..."anything worth doing is worth doing well"...is something
that I have grown up with my entire life. Granted, I didn't always
adhere to that but as I have gotten older and have grown as a Martial
Artist and a parent, I have realized this is an absolute must in our
lives if we are to succeed on any level. It is not enough to just "go
through the motions" and pretend we are giving it our all. We sell
ourselves short by doing that and as instructors and parents, we have
to be the example by which our students and children are lead through
their lives and their training. After all, like the Martial Arts, isn't
life just an ongoing training exercise?
I am always on my
students in class to "Train From the Heart" and to put their best
effort forward. Not everyone is the same or equal in ability but if
your training comes from the heart, and you are putting everything you
have into what you are doing, success is guaranteed, no matter what
that level of success is. By that I mean, one student may be having a
hard time performing a new technique while the student next to him or
her "gets it" right from the start. For me, I am not as much concerned
with how either of them are performing the technique, but more so with
how much effort they are putting into the task. Eventually, with
diligence and a solid work ethic, the student having the most trouble
will be the most satisfied when that technique finally "clicks". The
smile and recognition on that student's face, knowing that they have
succeeded by their own efforts is what makes it all worth while and why
"Training From the Heart" is so important no matter how or where you
apply it.
Apply that same hard work and diligence to your
every day life and see what successes manifest from your efforts!